Thursday, June 18, 2009

Nice article from Choi Leng

Yesterday Choi Leng had send a mail for me on this article.. Quite interesting.. haha

But for me and Darl.. we still have plenty of years to go.. cz we are not that long ... hehehe


男孩也好女孩也好,一起看看幾米的讀白吧......
1.很清楚的知道她不合適自己,可是更確定的是他不會主動說分手。 他只是耗著等著,直到有一天女生自己受不了忽冷忽熱、若即若離的態度,
或是等到年華老去不得不下決定時,自己選擇離開。 妳的主動離開,我沒有負心,反而是尊重與成全妳的決定。

2. 半年後發現,他居然可以跟一個只認識三個月的女生步入禮堂, 令她晴天霹靂,才明白他不是不想結婚,不是真的不婚主義者, 說穿了只是他不想跟妳結婚。 八年的愛情長跑比不上三個月的感情。

3. 這位故事中的男生是我的朋友,現在也已經結婚半年。 當他聽到劉若英的「後來」,居然會無法克制的流眼淚, 想起的是他交往八年的前任女友。 為什麼會難過,因為妻子身上有著前任女友的影子, 他才明白其實他喜歡的就是這種類型的女孩。

4. 可是人往往很矛盾, 喜歡她的倔強與有性格,卻受不了她的嬌縱。 喜歡她的落落大方,卻受不了她的朋友一堆; 你愛她的小家碧玉,就不要怪她不夠大方; 你愛她的活潑大方,就不要批評她像花蝴蝶一樣。 戀愛談的愈長,結婚的可能性就愈低,
所以有時候戀愛的長度與結婚的可能性成反比。

5. 喜新厭舊是人性,日子久了,會結婚不是為了愛情,而是責任感的驅使。
婚後的他才慢慢的發現,當時的那一段感情其實不是不愛,
是時間太久了太長了,把愛情給磨掉了,
再遇到另一個女孩點燃了愛情的火苗,星星之火足以遼源,
把枯竭已久的愛情給予生命,所以倉促的決定結婚。 等到真的結婚後,愛情降了溫,才慢慢的發現其實妻子的身上 有著許多前任女友的影子,他比較愛的人其實還是前任女友, 可是他娶的卻不是她。 這樣的情節不知道是不是也在別處同樣上演著?

6. 學生時代的愛情很單純,出社會以後總想等工作穩定以後再結婚,
工作穩定以後又想等有一點積蓄買車子、買房子以後再結婚,
等著等著,等到愛情被時光給消磨,等到第三者介入點燃 了對方心中激情的火苗,乾柴烈火不可收拾以後,
曾經在年少一起織夢的理想全都抵擋不了新鮮感的激情,
所以琵琶別抱,到最後步入禮堂的都不是在一起同甘共苦、
共同經歷過寒、暑假,等當兵的人。

7. 所以奉勸各位女孩子, 如果對方真的是你想結婚的對象,不要想著有房子有車子有金子,
有了一切再結婚。
現實是,等他有了一切,他的身價暴漲是有價值的單身貴族, 他必需要面臨的是更多的誘惑,妳長久以來的等待與年輕時許 下的山盟海誓都難以抵擋誘惑排山倒海的來。
就像我現在若不嫁他,非得等到他有車子有房子還有存款時再結婚,
那時新娘有極高的可能不是我。
因為要等到什麼都有還要幾年?
有能力的男人就像酒愈久愈香醇,女人則像麵包一樣有賞味期限,
青春是女人的天敵。
如果我是他,等到我三十五歲,什麼都有是個有上千萬身價的黃金單身漢,
我並不需要一個很有能力而年過三十的女人來幫襯我,
我寧可選個如花似玉,年輕貌美的女生,也許沒有什麼工作能力,
至少發揮了賞心悅目的功能,一個真正有能力的男人,
不會在乎一個女人是否能在他的財富上加乘。 遇上對的人,莫等待莫蹉跎,也許沒有房子沒有車子,
只要他認真上進,他就是張有潛力的積優股,
早點進場獲利更高。

8. 也提醒各位男士, 如果對方真的是你想好好疼愛的女人,別讓她等太久,
有她一起陪你奮鬥應該是很美好的一件事除非你心中有其他的想法, 否則別讓愛情等太久,把真愛都磨掉了!雖然聽起來很殘忍,

但身邊的家人朋友都有類似的例子。 真愛,就不要等,除非是不想結婚......

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Thanks to Uncle !!!!

Thanks for Darl's Father ...

Went back Seremban last weekend ... in conjunction of celebrate early Father's Day because this week i am going back to Teluk Intan.. I am coughing .. and Darl's Parents really concern about me.. and think of alot of herbs to help me..

And the next morning, darl's Father actually place a Bird Nest which boil himself for me and darl to drink.. hehe.. I told darl that i appreciate what his father did... And the answer from Darl is " to thanks my father is you treat me nice " .. hahah i treat darl not nice meh?? wuaahaahaa..but ... i love his family alot as well.. and of course , to treat darl good.. i had bought alot of herbs to boil.. i had boil Lo Hon Ko on Monday.. heeheh.. okok what next?? review on Thursday lol.. hehe cz yesterday and today i had to stay back till quite late at night lol.. Hotelier..!!!!! Long Hours job..!!!!

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Night With Alvin & Christine...

Last two week saturday @ Laundry - Curve

Last Friday @ Genting..


Have a great night out with Alvin and her new found love Christine.. Two of them really a lovely match.. Really happy for Alvin found a great gf and also Darl really happy for him as well.. heehe.. hope that they will as lovely as me and darl lol.. wuahahaha



Darl want a kissing pose.. heeh.. me and darl had usual on that.. but seem like Alvin still shy wor.. hahaha..



Two lovely couple and perfect match...


Hahah.. so funny with darl glasses.. ehehe


Yeah we are heading to Genting Lol.. Is a sudden decision by darl..hehee he always gave us alot of suprise with some special ideas.. We went there at 11pm and reach kl @ 4am.. Next day, we are working !!!

eheheh.. lets go sweet couple..

@ Starbuck Genting

Yummy Hot Chocolate...


Heheh sweet + Lovely.. i love you darl !!!1


Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Please Pray for Victim at Air France..!!!

* Please pray for them to be safe.. i really hope god will protect them.. please let them survive... They are the child on this earth and do not put their family on worries.. i really hope god will let them freed..

Agence France-Presse - 6/2/2009 4:32 AM GMT

Scant hope as search continues for Air France plane
The search continued through the night for an Air France plane that disappeared over the Atlantic, but little hope remained Tuesday that any of 228 people on board would be found alive.
Air France flight AF 447 disappeared early Monday four hours into its 11-hour flight from Rio de Janeiro to Paris after the Airbus A330 encountered severe turbulence over the Atlantic and reported technical failures.
A daytime search by eight Brazilian air force aircraft doing visual sweeps did not turn up anything in the area being searched: a zone 1,100 kilometers (680 miles) off its northeastern coast.
The search was being continued overnight with a Hercules C130 fitted with equipment to try to detect the plane's emergency beacon, with another aircraft with onboard radar, and if weather conditions permit, infrared gear that could detect bodies in the water.
Officials said there was little hope of survivors from what appears to be the worst air accident in over a decade.
"The prospects of finding any survivors are very slim," a grim-faced French President Nicolas Sarkozy said after talking to stunned relatives of missing passengers. "It's a catastrophe the likes of which Air France has never seen."
Although the exact cause of the crash remained a mystery, Air France's chief executive said the aircraft had sent a series of error messages shortly after crossing an area of major turbulence.
"A succession of a dozen technical messages" sent by the aircraft around 0215 GMT showed that "several electrical systems had broken down" which caused a "totally unprecedented situation in the plane," said Pierre-Henry Gourgeon.
"It is probable that it was shortly after these messages that the impact in the Atlantic came," he told reporters at Charles de Gaulle airport, where the flight was meant to have landed on Monday morning.
Airline officials had earlier said the plane was probably hit by lightning, but Gourgeon declined to make a direct link between weather conditions and the error messages.
Brazilian President Luiz Inacio Lula da Silva said he held out hope for survivors, but added that earlier he had spoken with French President Nicolas Sarkozy by telephone "and really it was an exchange of condolences."
If it is confirmed that all 228 people on Flight AF 447 are dead, it would mark the worst loss of life in Air France's history and civil aviation's worst accident for more than a decade.
Spanish and French air forces sent out search planes to scour a vast area of ocean between Brazil and Africa. The United States also sent a surveillance aircraft and an Air Force search and rescue team in response to a request for assistance from Paris.
At Charles de Gaulle airport, tearful relatives were ushered into a private area to await developments and get counselling from a team of psychologists.
At Rio 's Tom Jobim International Airport stunned relatives were shown into a closed lounge, away from the news media and into the care of psychologists and doctors.
One woman, Vasti Ester van Sluijs, told AFP she had jumped into a taxi as soon as she heard the overnight Air France flight had disappeared.

"My daughter Adriana Francesca was on the plane," she said.

Air France said the 216 passengers included 126 men, 82 women, seven children and a baby. There were 12 French crew members.
The passengers hailed from 32 countries, including 61 from France, 58 from Brazil and 26 from Germany.
French Environment Minister Jean-Louis Borloo, whose portfolio includes transport, said hijacking had been ruled out.
� French newspapers were aghast Tuesday at the "mystery" still surrounding the aircraft's fate, bewildered a plane could disappear with so little trace.
"In this era when satellites can identify people on the streets ... such uncertainty raises a thousand questions," wrote the Reims-based L'Union/L'Ardennais.
Airbus said the A330 has a good safety record, with no fatalities ever on a commercial flight. One did crash in 1994 during a test flight in southern France, however, killing seven people on board.
Last week Air France announced its first net loss since it merged with Dutch airline KLM in 2003 to create Europe's biggest airline.
In July 2000 all 109 passengers and crew plus four people on the ground were killed when a supersonic Air France Concorde crashed during takeoff from Charles de Gaulle airport. All Concordes were eventually taken out of service.
On August 3, 2005, an Air France A340 with 309 on board skidded off the runway after landing in a thunderstorm at Toronto's Pearson International Airport. Fourteen people suffered minor injuries.

i'm SICK !!!

I'm Sick.. Not swine flu.. but i know this virus came to me every year.. Flu + Cough.. Synthom of Swine flu right?? haha..



Yesterday darl had reach kl.. he is very healthy dun worry.. haha.. he is a workaholic.. immediately touch down.. he want me to fetch him back to office for work.. and i have to wait for him at the office by playing with my mobile game.. haha..



Night time , darl call me to accompany him to play badminton @ 9pm in Kepong.. i was so tired and i refused to go with him yesterday.. i really do not know why darl had so much energy...

But , i really wanna thanks darl here.. i know he really worry about my sick.. and call me drink more water and must see doctor.. i had seen doctor.. confirm nt swine flu lol.. doctor said i have infection on throat and also flu.. my fever will come soon.. please.. tonight must eat medicine to cure it fast.. is so suffering while i meet client...

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Weekend without Darl !!!

After a year , i never have a weekend without darl.. except for special day like chinese new year ...

But , this weekend .. without darl.. and i had done alot of thing..

On Friday night .... Have dinner with Si Yan , and Laey Ping at Kepong... Then went to Si Yan house to play Mah Jong with her bf as well.. hehe .. at last i won RM 15... haha

Saturday - Went to PLAY and look for Diana for chat.. but suddenly saw alot of new cloths had arrive and it is so nice.. Had bought over the budget of this month.. so sms darl.. and call him to pay me back.. wuahahahaha... and then have my lunch + breakfast with Alice ( Ray's Gf ) , she had open a medicure session just below PLAY .. Share the place with the salon.. and done my nice medicure .... real cheap and nice..

Went back home , and my parents had come to visit us.. Dinner - Shop at The Curve , and Tesco...

Today Morning.. wake up at 9am.. had breakfast with parents.. then the whole day with parents to shop.. About 6 pm - Went to PLAY and look for Diana for dinner.. So had a nice dinner at Balakong with Diana's Family .. nice family..

Cant wait for tomorrow.. i could see darl lol.. hehehe.. darl said he had bought something for me at Bandung.. hehe ok la.. at least he still remember me .. will love him more.. extra 10% wuahahhaa.. I miss you darl !!!!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

With Darl...

Last weekend, i am working at Mid Valley for the wedding Fair.. because COncorde had rent a booth there to promote the ballroom for wedding dinner..

So darl , became my driver by fetching me work and back home.. so sweet of him... hehe..

Yesterday darl had went to Jakarta for business trip.. miss him like crazy.. will wait till monday he is back.. miss him so much.. this month , almost every week he will be out for business.. but is ok... i had use to it lol.. hahaha

While darl driving.. i found something new .. maybe is not new for others. but is real fun.. i love the reflection of the mirror.. and especially darl car's mirror.. is big.. and i capture some of the reflection on that.. hehe


This is not reflection haha.. but this is sun glasses bought at The Curve the day before from Darl. Actually is his sun glass.. but i just try it out and found that it is nice.. and is mine now.. hahahah


Yeah this is the reflection.. Darl say is not nice cz it show his bag..


Should take his bag off from the seat ho.


A small reflection



Darl wanna try it out as well.. Busy Body.. hahahaha

At last .. Our picture is in the mirror... I miss you darl.. Muacks !!!!!